Sunday, September 11, 2011

Remembering... and the show must go on



This song fits this day so well.

Coincidentally, this video was recorded within hours of the terrorist attack on our country on September 11, 2001. If you get a chance to watch the DVD of Sting's ...All This Time, you will see when Sting, his family and band receive the information that the World Trade Center was hit. Later, they would find out that they lost many in that tragedy. But at the time, they had an intimate concert planned for some very special fans and, as they say in show biz, the show must go on...

(Read more about the concert and film here.)

Indeed the show did go on and turned from a somber beginning to a concert filled with joy. You can see the concern and grief in the faces of the band, Sting and fans. You can feel the pain and struggle to get through the lyrics of this song, Fragile, at the beginning of the show... but by the end, you feel a sense of oneness and love.

If blood will flow when flesh and steel are one
Drying in the colour of the evening sun
Tomorrow's rain will wash the stains away
But something in our minds will always stay

Perhaps this final act was meant
To clinch a lifetime's argument
That nothing comes from violence and nothing ever could
For all those born beneath an angry star
Lest we forget how fragile we are

On and on the rain will fall
Like tears from a star like tears from a star
On and on the rain will say
How fragile we are how fragile we are


On this, the 10th anniversary of that day, I choose to feel the grief of remembering but also to remember that the show must go on. I choose to remember the joy of carrying on the memories and lessons learned from that day. I choose to remember to celebrate the lives of those taken so tragically that day. I choose to smile to my neighbors, give love to those in need.

I choose to remember our common thread.

I choose to remember how fragile we are.



Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Me... and my body

Last week, in my inbox, I received a local email deal for eye lash extensions.

EYE LASH EXTENSIONS.

Really?!

Ok, I'll admit it. I've had plastic surgery. After carrying 2 large babies and losing 50 lbs, I realized I wasn't blessed with elastic skin. A tummy tuck to rid myself of lose skin was something I wanted... but still had to talk myself into. I had to keep telling myself, "I am NOT that vain."

I also had to be okay with the fact that I WAS indeed that vain. I DID want to look better. Not perfect. But better.

But eye lash extensions?

I'm left stunned with the amount of things we will spend money on to look BETTER. And yes, I said "we" because I then began to question my own eye lashes...

When will it end? Why are we so hard on ourselves? What sort of ideal are we aspiring to??

Then I saw the following video and remembered my dear friend in recovery from breast cancer and a double mastectomy.

She definitely puts things in perspective. A big wide world perspective.

If you have 13 minutes, watch this. Beautiful. Powerful. Inspiring.